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Once again, we have the playful opportunity to discern the difference between what we imagine to be real, and what is actually real. In the context of lack and abundance, it is important to note that LACK is a construct of imagination and does not actually exist in reality. LACK is a dream that is believed to be real, and with belief in LACK, we both look for LACK and create evidence of it.

Simply by believing in the concept of lack, the experience of lack becomes manifest in our human-drea…

FEAR 🥺: What is it, and how does it seem to control our lives?

For me, as I dive inward and look at my direct experience honestly, I find that FEAR has nothing to do with LIFE, and everything to do with a confusion about what I am. The fear I experience only looks to project my imaginary sense of self-importance; an ego that looks to protect what it holds on to in order to validate itself as real.

Furthermore, in being radically honest with myself, I see that I am not afraid of what's real, …

Well, this is a super sweet topic; it feels a little bit poetic.

Raptured? Yes, to be fully consumed by an overwhelmingly loving presence that transcends all comprehension; no words can adequately describe it, so maybe we just say we evaporate into the heavens.

There's a sweetness to the experience of seeing life more clearly that I will forever enjoy failing to communicate. It can't be touched by my words, but it's so much fun to try. Just the attempt to do so invites me into a space that…

The confused mind seeks to find the REAL in the unreal, searching for real love, real connection, and real freedom in the dream-like existence they only imagine to be happening. The craving for what is Real, including the craving to discover what you really are, will never be found in the imagination of your mind.

I am so excited to explore this topic of how as human beings, we often look to connect with something real and authentic, but end up searching for it in places that are not real…

This topic, "Self Love," is ripe for misunderstanding and confusion. Unfortunately, a lot of us find ourselves trapped in an opposing dichotomy— where we believe we should love ourselves, yet feelings of regret and lack of self-satisfaction continue to haunt us.

Sure, it sounds nice. "Love yourself." What does that actually mean, though?

• Shall I give in to whatever urges or desires might arise because I love myself?

• Does it mean that I should think highly of myself and push away oth…

I had an excellent 1-1 session yesterday, where we explored the importance of taking care of yourself first; before you try to take care of others. Initially, the adorably confused mind thinks this is terribly selfish. However, in that session, I said something that just made so much sense.

"If you don't take care of the one who is taking care of others, then the caretaker will fail at taking care of others."

Also, practically, if you have a tool that does a job, and you don't care for…

"How can I help them?!"

This is an adorably interesting topic for me because... I hear it often as I work with people privately or in groups.

There can be this frantic energy that is innocently terrified of not doing the right thing, or afraid of missing out on an opportunity to genuinely help someone we care about. Also, there is concern about being of service to the world in general.

I keep pointing back to that as a core message, whenever we are experiencing emotional disturbance (…

One of the difficulties I consistently encounter while working 1-on-1 with people, is their general frustration when it comes to communication. However, they don’t always know it’s this. Often, they assume their personal frustration is about other people’s inability to do what they’re told, or other people’s inability to understand them. Really though, in many cases, their frustration arises because they cannot connect authentically with other people in a significant that is both tactful and …

There is this soft silence in me when I think about this topic, maybe as if the question itself is enough. Sometimes words can complicate what is, just so… simple and direct.

The question, “What if… it’s not really Personal?”

Why is this so powerful, for me? Well, because, I recognize that every emotional disturbance I might have is, ultimately, taking something to be personal that isn’t really personal. I’m imagining it to be about me.

This can send shockwaves through my human system and c…